How to start a new life2 998
Each of us at least once said to himself: “Everything! Resolved! Starting a new life! ”From the new year, from Monday, after the holidays. In fact, only 10% of the plans were realized at best.
The decision to start a new life is dictated by an ardent desire to change something drastically, to do it in a new way, not like before. The current state of affairs is no longer satisfactory, which means that large-scale changes are needed. Such an approach, on the one hand, pushes us to the role of an active participant in our life, the role of lead, and on the other hand, often leads to non-fulfillment of our plans and stop halfway. Why?
The fact is that starting a new life in general is a global concept that cannot serve as a motivator due to its uncertainty. What does “new life” mean? What time do I set myself? What do I want to get in the end? What resources do I need? Do I really want what I want? Specifying and dividing the global goal into small steps makes the goal achievable.
If you want to change something in your life, improve its quality or some of its separate areas, the following steps will help you.
Set a specific goal
You can often hear the phrase: “I want to change my life!” To the question: “What exactly do you want?”, The person answers that he does not know. This is the path to nowhere. This means that the life of this person will not change. Not because the goal is bad, but because the goal, in fact, is not. The goal is what you can touch, measure, smell, feel.
Break the goal into small but concrete steps.
Sometimes, it takes time and effort of will to assemble and decide on changes in life. To make it easier, start small. Start with changes in those areas of your life that you, in principle, were not going to change. For example, change the hairstyle, do a general cleaning in the apartment, get a dog.
Find like-minded people
Everyone knows that a society with similar goals and desires has a very beneficial effect on our own achievements. The support of others is very important. Some are lucky with relatives, with friends. If among your friends there are no people with similar goals, there are many options to plunge into this environment.
For example, communities on social networks, forums on the Internet, clubs for interests, biographies of people who have achieved what you want and so on.
Do not lose heart after failure
Regardless of how you want to change your life, you will face difficulties and losses. This is life, and you cannot get away from problems.
TATIANA BELOKONSKAYA, specially for Evrikak.ru
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