Why the husband does not want a child, and how to persuade him to become a dad
How to make a man become a dad
One answer - no way!
No one can be made to want anything, it can be forced to take a decision. Make, tilt, but want - no.
But you can open your eyes, show another world, convince. Here are some tips:
In case the woman is “not that”then she just needs to leave. It is impossible to make love, and if a man does not want a child from this woman, then she in turn should go and look for the one who wants the baby exclusively from her.
More than one man in the world was not tied to a child so that he would not regret it.
- If there is no apartment, no work, or all temporary,then we can say that two poor or poor have a desire to show the third beggar to the world. Probably, in this case, a woman needs to open her palms and carefully look around. There is no house! But a woman will find a grandmother who will bake pies; aunt who will provide the stroller; a neighbor who can give things left over from her child.A woman can get out and make a living out of nothing. A man such an approach is unknown. Consequently, a woman must prescribe for a man ways out of the situation if he cannot fully provide for his family at that time.
A woman understands that “living for yourself” is to give birth to a baby and plunge into the world of motherhood.Because to drink, walk and disappear at parties is to live for the society, someone else's opinion, random people and for spiritual devastation. No, we are not against parties, but they should not take a lifetime. It’s like falling stars — sometimes.
Do not live for the sake of the child, you must live with the child! Live to the fullest, find time to play in the sandbox and on holidays with friends.Yes, so many nightly gatherings for vodka will be gone. Now ask yourself the main question - are they really necessary in such quantity? What do they leave behind? How do they spiritually nourish you? Then, when your baby appears, you will realize that it is much better for you to stay at home and fuck with your daughter than to once again get drunk and recall the stories from the reckless childhood that have been spoken a hundred times.
Advice to get pregnant on the "nychku" - not our approach.Whoever said that you were pregnant,man wants a child? Have you seen a few melodramas? When the "daddy" learns about the beautiful position of mommy, it often runs away, only the heels sparkle.
Want to have a baby - give birth. But not in order to keep someone, tie or make "want."